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October, 2009

  1. Contemplations : How do you google a lifetime?

    October 21, 2009 by me

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    When asked to write a biography about Grandma, I immediately went into research mode and did what most people nowadays would do: I googled her birthday. Then it hit me, Grandma was 92 years old…92! Imagine all that she lived through…and without the Internet! How did she survive?! The amount of historical events that she lived through it amazing…way too long to list here. And this probably won’t even make the back of the memorial program because it’s too damn long. But I thought I’d share some of my favorites with my other family: the facebook family:

    Some things that happened on November 3rd through the years:

    Saturday, November 3, 1917—Doris Thompson born;

    First Class mail stamps increase…to 3 cents (1917) ; Chicago Tribune reports: “Dewey beats Truman” (1948) ; USSR launches Sputnik 2 with first dog in orbit (1957) ; Good Morning America premieres on ABC (1973); Lou Piniella is named manager of the Reds, replacing banned Pete Rose (1989)

    Some things that were invented between 1917 and 2009 :

    Xerox machine ; First computer ; Polaroid Camera; Color TV; First space shuttle flight; Hearing aid; Atomic Bomb; Compact disc; VHS; Apple personal computer

    Dolly the cloned sheep; Sticky tape; Ballpoint pen; Microwave; Velcro; DVD

    Wars lived through: 6+

    (end of WWI; WWII ; Korean ; Vietnam ; Desert Storm ; Iraqi Freedom)

    Presidents elected since 1917: 17

    (Wilson ; Harding ; Coolidge ; Hoover ; FDR ; Truman ; Eisenhower ; JFK ; Johnson ; Nixon ; Ford ; Carter ; Reagan ; Bush ; Clinton ; Bush ; Obama)

    Although I couldn’t find anyone “famous” with her same birthday (apparently, that Nov. 3, 1917 was reserved for her alone), I did uncover other people who had the same birthdate…or rather, who shared her birthdate: Kate Capshaw – Steven Spielberg’s ex-wife; Roseanne Barr – the TV star; Dennis Miller – comedian-extraordinaire; and my favorite, Godzilla – the Japanese monster. Apparently, he was “born” on Nov. 3, 1954, and Doris would have been 37 and way too busy with her three kids and budding music career to care about some Japanese monster.

    And let’s not forget The Great Depression, the Cold War, the Women’s Movement, civil rights, fallout shelters, Pearl Harbor, the moon landing, Kennedy assassination, 9/11…the impressive list goes on and on and on.

    I didn’t want this to be so much about her past, but about how much life and history she lived through…how much has changed over the years, and how much hasn’t changed at all. The life she lived was full of laughter and tears, hardship and triumph, strong will and determination. It was filled with family, it was filled with laughter and tears and it was most certainly filled with the gift of song. Her fingers constantly grazed the ivories of her beloved piano, which has since been passed down to the resident musician in the family, Jenny Weaver Barbieri. It was a life filled with, well, life. And as she is no doubt directing the Heavenly Choir of Knox, PA for their annual Christmas concert, I can’t help but smile at the legacy she taught us all: the power of music will lead us home.

    When griping grief the heart doth wound,
    and doleful dumps the mind oppresses,
    then music, with her silver sound,
    with speedy help doth lend redress.

    –William Shakespeare


  2. Contemplations: Doris Weaver – playing piano with the angels.

    October 14, 2009 by me

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    Doris Weaver
    Nov. 3, 1917 – Oct. 14, 2009

    (I’m copying my aunt’s facebook status update)
    My grandma was indeed a wonderful person, loved by her family and everyone who met her. She brought the gift of music into all our lives. So, whenever you hear a beautiful tune (especially piano music), think of her fondly. Grandma passed on this afternoon, but will never be forgotten.

    May you play flawless piano with the angels, and make sure the chorus stays in tune…

    Say hi to John, Farrah, Patrick, Michael and Ed for me…

    Grandma and the Humidifier of 1995


  3. Film Student for Life: “New York, I Love You”…more like “I Like You”

    October 13, 2009 by me

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    It’s like: Paris, Je’taime , Before Sunrise, Before Sunset

    Stars you’d know: just look at the photo above…a lot.

    Their tagline: every moment…love begins

    My tagline: Love is found everywhere in New York, in many different forms.

    Verdict: Didn’t love it, but didn’t hate it either. Loved “Paris, je’taime” because I liked being transported into a different world. Here, I just kinda felt like they were on any other street corner. I know they weren’t, and I know native New Yorkers will know exactly where they were standing, the exact bench they filmed on in Central Park, etc. etc. But as a native suburbanite, eh…not so much. I did like how the stories were woven together, how one bump into a guy on the street turned into another storyline, or how you are sitting on a park bench in Central Park and wondering what that guy over there is thinking…where he’s come from, where he’s going…I mean, who doesn’t wonder that sometimes? (Just me? Ok, moving on…) I was thoroughly entertained for the one hour and a half movie. But was I overly impressed, blown away, can’t stop thinking about it? No. The stories were entertaining: see Ethan Hawke’s exchange and Cloris Leachman’s hilarious closer….those scenes alone are worth seeing the movie for. It’s basically a filmatic love story to New York…no sentimentality, no “wish you were here” postcard-type souvenirs…just a simple film with many stories interwoven about love and the various forms it takes on in a place where a stranger could turn out to be your lover, your friend, or your next documentary.

    Because, really, aren’t strangers just friends you haven’t met yet?