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  1. 31 things to do before 31 — the countdown commences

    January 8, 2012 by me

    Start the countdown!

    T-minus 29 days and counting!!!!

    Crap, I better get started on this list! (good thing “stop procrastinating” didn’t make the list!)

    Must stay focused and motivated.

    31 things to do before 31 (as of 01/28/12):

    1. Import my physical CDs into iTunes and start a CD Swap.  (I recently had to get a 1 Terabyte hard drive to take the 400(!) gigs of music off my laptop for more space…and I haven’t even started importing yet!)
    **just started re-doing this again, since I now have a lot more music than I have before (Thanks, Z!)…it does take some effort though, and I have a lot of physical CDs to get through…focus, Stefi…focus…***

    2. Read Breaking Dawn.
    **kinda over the vampire phase of my life…unless it’s True Blood, of course!**

    3. Learn how to properly use my Mac without the help of Google. (Seriously, sick of googling “how to reboot a mac”)
    **Thinking at this point, instead of paying for a class, why don’t I just frame a cheat sheet like this beauty: mac shortcut poster. Still might. Still pondering. Still don’t know how to force quit…**

    4. Make more money by selling off stuff I don’t use anymore and making an ebay account / amazon account (gotta make more money to pay stupid special special assessments!)
    **While the stupid special special assessments still exist (along with the property tax hike (thanks a lot, Cook County!)), I have been able to sell off most of my DVDs through Amazon. So I guess this is done.**

    5. Teach Ollie new tricks. He can lay down and sit…and he can take a running leap at you and jump all over you. Now to teach him useless tricks…
    **I am teaching him to wait for his food…which is very hard for him. But patience is a virtue (so I hear). I am also trying to teach him the “Captain Morgan” stance where he lifts one paw in the air. Like I said, useless tricks. Will post a video if I can ever get him to do it.**

    6. Have one room in my studio at least look like I put some thought into the design. (ugh. My studio still doesn’t look “adult” or reflect my personality! Help, HGTV!)
    **Since I realize that “one room” in my “studio” was pretty redundant, let’s just say the closet is still my favorite part of the house and cross this one off.**

    7. Learn to play one song from The Fray on the piano. (I’ve had a friend’s piano in my place for more than a year now, and haven’t taught myself anything!)
    **Didn’t learn The Fray yet, but did learn Missy Higgins “Where I Stood” one cold wintery night. But I guess I’ll have to record it to prove it to you, and soon, since the piano lessons start soon for Abbie-cakes!**

    8. Pay off at least one credit card. (I’d love to be debt free by age 30, but with a mortgage and student loans, not to mention credit cards…paying off one would be nice!)
    **HOORAY! One down! Three more to go (wah wah wah)**

    9. Lose 10 pounds (or at least fit into my jeans better)
    **My weight has sooo fluctuated this year — however, my jeans have never looked better, according to those who look at my ass :) **

    10. Drink at least 5 glasses of water a day. (I should be drinking 15 glasses, but let’s take baby steps.)
    **yeah, still not doing it.**

    11. Travel to a new place (just because) *does the new Lutheran General Hospital, wings 7, 8 & 10 count? No? Fine, this stays on**
    **between Mom’s cancer, switching jobs, having my usual place of vacation (sister’s in Florida) move up here, and just general life changes, I haven’t traveled anywhere in a year!! Must get on that**

    12. Go a whole day without complaining. (ha, because it’s hard for me!)
    **still haven’t done this…**

    13. Write in both blogs consecutively for one week. (to justify my “writing” hobby)
    **Well, I did happen to write consecutively in both blogs for about 3 days. And then I got rid of the other blog. So I guess technically, this one’s done.**

    14. Complete a crossword puzzle. (because I suck at crosswords)
    **PS–I still suck at crosswords, for some reason I can only do the Tuesday RedEye…**

    15. Write a new song.

    16. Write a short story.
    **http://stefiweaver.com/blog/2011/11/02/story-time-life-lesson-2349-you-dont-have-to-be-everyones-friend**

    17. Start the Harry Potter series. (because I finally have them all)
    **On book 4. Don’t think I’ll finish them in 29 days…but I did start the series…**

    18. Sell off all my books that I don’t care about and get a Kindle or Nook. (I know, I know, but I love books too much and don’t have enough square footage for them all!)
    **Got a nook. Love the nook. Now need to sell off all books I don’t want to justify the nook**

    19. Read Emerson. (All the quotes I love are from Emerson, so I really should read his books)
    **always reading in my nook. He is awesome.**

    20. Learn to meditate for 10 minutes. (My mind is active 20 hours a day with over contemplations. Must quiet the voices…)
    **I have learned meditation through daily rituals such as taking Ollie for a 25 minute walk after work without my cell. I find it’s when I’m the most creative, and when I’m the most calm. Also writing has recently become my new mediation obsession. There’s something about putting pen to paper that makes me calm down a little. Or at least quiet the voices…**

    21. Do yoga at least once a week. (kinda goes with meditating, must learn to relax!)
    **started because of vertigo attacks. Now doing every night, even if for two minutes. Really helps.**

    22. Help Ollie lose 10 pounds. (because he should be 22 pounds, not 36!)
    **haven’t weighed him yet, but chasing Tassi around for the past two months, I’m sure he’s lost something!****so he lost 5 pounds…and then gained it all back again! We’ll get there!**(11/11) he’s down to 29lb!**(12/11) he’s still 29lbs!**

    23. Get a tattoo (or stop talking about getting one) (because I have wanted one since 2003 but am a commitment-phobe)
    **http://stefiweaver.com/blog/2012/01/28/contemplations-analyzing-the-over-analysis-of-my-first-tattoo-or-stefi-izing-it/**

    24. Cook something new once a week. (if not to just expand my culinary non-abilities)
    **Ugh, this one has been hard for me, cause the last thing I want to do when I come home from work is cook. And although I have made a few new things, I definitely have yet to fulfill this one!**

    25. Find my favorite wine.
    **Cheap: Bodega Elena Malbec   Higher: Tramin Pinot Nero Doc Pinot Noir** 

    26. Install a headboard and TV in my “bedroom”. (because I want a big girl bed!)
    **I’ve decided against the TV in the “bedroom” simple because I don’t think my walls are sturdy enough to hold a tv on the wall…plus, the headboard that I got from IKEA (crappy, but works) made my bed exactly 0.5″ away from either wall. But it’s done. And it’s a little more “big girl” now. So this one’s done!**

    27. Find a high end/low end signature scent. (eh, just because I like to smell nice)
    **high end: Creed Spring Flowers low end: Banana Republic’s Rosewood (which, of course, is discontinued), Vera Wang Lovestruck**

    28. Learn how to sew (or at least hem my pants) (because I will be short for the rest of my life, and so will my pants)

    29. Watch the entire Battlestar Gallactica series (because I’m a nerd)
    **Kinda don’t care anymore…just sayin’…**

    30. Make an electronic scrapbook of my semester in London (from 2003!) (because it was the best time and must be preserved!)

    31. Drink more tea
    **thanks to free Mighty Leaf tea (my fav!) at work, I have now instituted my own “tea time” at 3pm!**


  2. TV OD: Portlandia = Hilar-ia!

    January 8, 2012 by me

    “Whole Foods is CORPORATE!”

    Everyone has been telling me to watch this show…and then everyone is telling all my friends to watch the show, and then those friends are asking me if I’ve seen it, and being the TV snob that I am, I, of course, have to watch whatever everyone else is talking about. So I’m only two episodes in, but let’s just say, I’m laughing my ass off. And it’s worth talking about. Some clips are “eh”, but most comedy sketch shows can’t hold the consistency for longer than two or three sketches. Portlandia puts all those stereotypes of post-generation “whatever” to shame. If you have Netflix, add it to your queue…you may not understand all of it, but who cares? It’s just darn funny.


  3. Contemplations in the rain (or “so long” 2011)

    December 30, 2011 by me

    There is something so calming and conTEMPlative about rain.  I don’t know if it’s because I’ve been in a very pensive state this last month, or it’s the end of a year, or that rain reminds me of certain events in my life that make me smile. There’s something about walking in the rain, with a destination in mind, but no rush to get there, when the sky is gray and foggy, and the air smells crisp and clean. I was only walking to the bank that is a couple blocks from my house, and armed with rain boots and an umbrella, I made my way down the street. It’s the cars honking their horns in frustration that were the only distractions from my walk, for I was trying to take in the sights and sounds of a city on a Friday at two in the afternoon. Things made me smile: a couple walking hand in hand with no umbrella, just laughing, probably at the fact that they were getting soaked and they didn’t seem to care. It’s a man pushing a cart full of groceries home, while on a cell phone and smoking, somehow he was doing it all, but he was missing the view around him, which is probably why he got soaked by a car splashing past. He hardly noticed. It’s the little girl holding her mother’s hand while jumping into puddles, much to her mother’s chagrin. It’s moments like these that made me appreciate the ability to walk a couple blocks without fear of pain, without fear of getting shot, without fear of anything but getting wet. And really, as an Aquarius, we all know I have no fear of that.

    And while I walked home from the bank, where I had just begrudgingly realized that financial obligation and adulthood go hand-in-hand, I walked slower, calmer. Because there’s something about the rain that makes me contemplate my existence, and makes me realize I am, in fact, ok. I am healthy, breathing, living, day by day, enjoying, loving and caring. My only real obligation is to my family and dog. (Side note–Ollie is in the country for the week, which is why I think I am so contemplative. Dogs really are a natural (and needed) distraction from the voices in my head!) I think we all get like this at the end of yet another year…we think of all the things we said we were going to do that didn’t get done, we think of all the times we wanted to say something but didn’t, we get to the end of the year and exclaim, “Wow, that year went by so fast!”. For me, this year started off hard. Extremely hard. Probably the hardest thing I have ever had to go through in my life thus far. And it’s ending with me trying desperately to just enjoy life as it comes. To stop over analyzing every little thing that might or might not happen in the future. To really, just enjoy the present, because, truthfully, isn’t that all we have?

    So I guess all this blabbering is me just saying, so long 2011. I’ve changed so much in this year. I’ve changed physically. I’ve changed jobs. I’ve changed friends. I’ve changed expectations and I’ve tried to change my outlook. But, really, do we ever change all that much? I don’t like making resolutions, cause let’s face it, we never keep them. But the one vow I make to myself in 2012 is to just take life as it comes. Stop planning. Stop over analyzing. Just trust that life has a grand plan and it will all work itself out like it is supposed to. Yeah, I know, that’s a very Pollyanna/naive way to look at things. But with all the change that has happened in 2011, I’m looking for a Pollyanna/rose-colored glasses way of life in 2012.  And it’s all beginning with me making up a word…in 2012, I’ll be Que Sera-ing it.